TRYING AND FAILING
That brings up another sore spot in some of us humans. Responsibility I was told at one time by someone I respected that means it is the ability to respond appropriately. Then she told me that I did not have that ability. I thought and talked with others about that a lot. I came to understand she was right for the most part. I was trying to respond appropriately and was failing. I was trying to control the situation, Ugh!