LUST OR BUST
Once the relationship is established; what is there to work on anyway? Women appear more complicated partially because of their levels of hormone production and how it affects them. This isn't to say a man could actually truly understand a woman because it can't happen. Women don't understand each other some of the time. Men can understand basics as being pointed out here by a man, dah! Men make little to no effort to understand the women in their lives and it makes women appear even more complicated. In session I tell men that foreplay begins with a woman first thing in the morning and continues throughout the day. Not with sexuality but with general attention paid to them and treatment of the women. You start by holding hands, and then the dreaded cuddling, active listening etc. Men go from not being able to wait to see the girl friend, talking to her and just being with her; to not paying any attention to her in the same ways.