Men in general, me included at one time, think foreplay begins in the bedroom when we want sex. Remember men are physically based. Men have also been called Neanderthals by some women and I believe at times it was deserved. Ask a woman when foreplay begins and I am certain the response will be the first thing in the morning every day. For a man to hear this could turn their day into a job I would think. Men in general love the chase and the catch and when that excitement slows down they do not realize it is still wanted and expected to some degree. Hence men stopping working on the relationship without realizing it, at times anyway. Foreplay is fun and the results are more awesome than you can imagine when applied all of the time to some degree.